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Purpose

 Recently, I've been acutely reminded that 'reality' is just a perception and that by being human, we're often caught up in wanting proof and science to help us believe what is so. We want evidence.

One of the fundamental principles of Quantum Physics is that the simple act of observing something changes the behavior of that 'thing'. By observing the behavior of an electron, the electron limits it's behavior. We only see what we look for, in other words. And if we don't know to look for it, we won't find it.  We will find what we expect to find.

And, since we have set ideas about the way things work and what is possible as well as what form things take... we limit what is possible in our world by the small-ness of our thinking and our beliefs about the universe and how everything works.

What do I have to say about that right now?

'I am open to all possibilities each and every moment and I will receive with openness all that this human experience has to offer. I am thankful for this extraordinary experience to be human and I want to experience fully the joys of this life.'

The way it is.

Two years ago, my world was blown apart with  the break-up of my relationship with my significant other.
I'd sacrificed many things to be in relationship with him and I felt devastated by the events of his leaving and my lack of control over them.

My business was suffering and my well-being was in question. I had a long way to climb to be the vibrant, happy, independent woman who had entered that relationship several years before.

Today I am happier than I've ever been in my whole life. I remember people telling me that I'd pass through the pain and that I'd look back and feel gratitude for the journey... and I knew they were right, but I didn't see how it was really possible to ever feel any different than I was at that moment. And I didn't see how it was possible to ever forgive him or to love again or to move forward.

How did I get from that to where I am today?  One step at a time. One step at a time, I made my way to a new world in which I live today - one that is much, much larger than the world in which I lived a few years ago. A world that I've created for myself with intention and possibility.

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Here's what I've learned about forgiveness: There is no forgiveness. There is nothing to forgive when one  truly takes responsibility for one's own experiences and life. There is no one to blame. There is no one to forgive; unless it is to forgive oneself.  I am responsible for what I make of things, of events, of people. I am responsible because I create my thoughts, feelings, experiences... I am the source of all that I perceive. Others do what they do. I feel however I feel about what they do;  no one is responsible for my feelings, except me. And therefore, no one is to blame for my reaction to what another did; I am responsible for it.

Thus, there is no forgiving another... the only thing is to give thanks for the lesson.

I am so thankful for my lessons. I am so thankful to the man who left  - through his actions and my reactions, I have learned so much. Thank you.

There are so many things for which I'm grateful now that I have my life back. I have more love in my life than ever before - and I am the source of that love. I feel a profound connection with my surroundings and I have faith that I will always be taken care of exactly as I require.

Thank you, creator, for providing me all that I require.